• captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    Ok yeah if someone wanted to do that to me I might give it a shot. But yeah I wouldn’t be happy if she did it to me without a heads up

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      3 days ago

      Ah ok, I assumed your objection would be for giving rather than receiving … typically “I don’t do butt stuff” crops up in conversation before you tie someone up, and that I would respect

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        3 days ago

        Like, yeah I’m definitely not giving it, that’s not up for debate though. Receiving is where there’s room to discuss.

        And it’s not like I’ve never done butt stuff, it’s just that I’ve learned to accept that I just generally prefer to stick to the other side. Especially now that I’m getting older and dealing with hemorrhoids. These days I feel butts are for hitting, grabbing, and displaying handkerchiefs.

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          “These days I feel butts are for hitting, grabbing, and displaying handkerchiefs.”

          Still plenty of repertoire there, then!

          As for hemorrhoids, between them and other issues from overuse, I ended up having surgery … can’t do internal butt stuff now, but at least I’ll get to old age with normal function. I miss it sometimes, but I guess that’s part of surviving far longer than anyone expected!