• maks@sh.itjust.works
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    2 days ago

    Dude, you couldn’t have known. I know it’s hard, but you shouldn’t dwell on it

    You did everything right, it just wasn’t the right time or the right person. You’re not to blame at all - if it was an issue on her side, she should have talked about it instead of coldly friendzoning you

    Just to be clear, I asked my wife what she thought, and she thinks the same thing

    • SuperSpruce@lemmy.zip
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      2 days ago

      Thank you so much for your advice! With how little experience I have, it is really tough to not trigger a mine in the dating minefield.