• WoodYouLookAtThat@lemmy.today
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    2 days ago

    My parents made sure to give me a will to fly the coop by making sure I couldn’t fucking stand to be around them

    I almost think OP’s situation with 20 years of enablement is worse because it offers a persistent safety net, then rips it away

    • gandalf_der_13te@feddit.org
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      17 hours ago

      My parents made sure to give me a will to fly the coop by making sure I couldn’t fucking stand to be around them

      yeah i get the impression too that some parents are intentionally abusive sothat their children leave the house as soon as possible

      nevermind the money that could be saved by multi-generational households.

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      1 day ago

      Something tells me they have been trying to get him out for the last decade (or two), and he decided to sit on his ass till the consequences finally hit. Worse, he appears to still be sitting on his ass even though the consequences are in motion.