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  • That’s not correct, you told me to not have kids before I accept your brand of relationship management which, still just is free love with a cooler name to me.

    Also, fuck me for asking about your passion and trying to understand? It seems like free love, the moral concept most learn while very young. I don’t think adding in conscious choice or evaluation of friends makes it different at all. These are things people do in school mostly and which parents teach their kids about. It is already included in the neat package of free love. You may like or dislike who you want. We can give advice, but not choose for you.

    I struggle to understand because it feels like there should be a nugget of wisdom in there but it’s kind of frustrating at the same time that it doesn’t say anything. Sorry.



  • I vehemently disagree with every reply and the op though. I think the intensely self explanatory “hate” you employ is not useful for the intent it pretends to be useful for. It does nothing and in fact is to the detriment of any actual revolution in a real impactful way. The increasingly under educated people are interacting with even more clueless hate mongering and it becomes impossible to move out of the capitalist quagmire. It plays into their hand. The consuming and proliferation of this hatred is CONTENT, rage bait content fueling capitalism and disillusioning actual interested people.



  • I have two kids and a bonus kid. Let me inform you that at no point has “not feeling it” been a valid reason to end that relationship. They are in fact not feeling the food at several occasions, and then changing their mind once they try it. I don’t see the doctrine you are talking about bring any insight still, but it also isn’t wrong. Love is free. You can choose. It is a very basic message. Kids cannot choose though. And prisoners, etc. I really do not understand fully how social and external factors can ever impact these rules when they do, daily for many people around the world? We want free love, for sure, but just saying it’s law and abstracting away any external impact is not really helpful? Or I am missing a lot


  • Probably. I have never fallen softly, so I don’t think that’s the issue :) You need to be yourself to see if the other likes your real self, which I know is a saying that you hear too often but it’s like when you get insight and understand it from your own perspective that it makes a difference. If you feel great alone, let someone into that, instead of diving into someone else’s world and abandoning everything in the name of agreeableness. It’s just my experience and may not be the same for you. But let me tell you many adore hot dads and you don’t need kids to be one :P



  • Against class war? What does that matter for our discussion? There is a class war going on right now.

    If there is no benificial policy, you should not argue or fight any revolution. Why do you keep talking about cases where there is concession with hyper capitalist corpos as if that is what defines beneficial policy? What are you smoking?