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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • This makes me think of a conversation between my wife and daughter a while back.

    Daughter is angry with her BF and frustrated that he seems oblivious to that

    Wife: “Oh honey, no. It doesn’t work like that. If I’m mad at your dad for something I just have to tell him. If he asks if I’m OK and I say, ‘I’m fine’, he takes that at face value. He’s very literal.”

    Daughter: “Ugh. Doesn’t that frustrate you?”

    Wife: “It was weird at first but once you get used to it it’s actually really nice. You just have to learn to talk to him.”

    Me: “Wait, I did something right?”

    Wife: “You do lots of things right babe.”

    Yeah, I think she likes me.




  • One time I worked in this IT department where, for the first six months, they literally didn’t give me anything to do. The department head would come check on me multiple times per day, to the point of being really annoying, but not give me any tasks even when I asked for work to do. This guy had been Peter Principled a long time ago.

    I knew how IT Ops works so I started finding problems that I needed his help to fix and politely hounding him about it until he he got me what I needed. It didn’t take him long to start avoiding me.

    I do not miss that place at all.

    Edit: They even gave me a promotion with a kind of implicit understanding that I was supposed to somehow manage this guy even though I was one of his direct reports. Turned out management was incompetent all the way up the ladder. If you find yourself in that position, GTFO as soon as possible. It will make you miserable.