• Tedesche@lemmy.world
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    20 hours ago

    My problem is that look is so similar to the “Oh, God, he’s not thinking about kissing me, is he?” look.

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      12 hours ago

      If you lean in, she’s leaning in, faces close, DO IT.

      If you find a girl with her face closing in, I promise you, she’s likely waiting on you to make the move. DO IT.

      One of my favorite lines was from Dostoevsky: “She was greatly moved (?) by his daring.” Something like that. Finally hit me. Yeah, women like a man who is bold.

      That’s not a license to be a jerk. That means to be decisive.

      “But what if she didn’t want me to kiss her?”

      Then she wouldn’t have put her face so close to yours. Women aren’t clueless.

      I gotta put a caveat in there for the guys: If you’re not really into her, just swept up in the moment, back the fuck up. Kiss that girl, she’s taking you seriously. If you’re not serious, stop.