• Tikiporch@lemmy.world
      1·
      3 months ago

      I figured it was just CYA for copyright, trademark, intellectual property infringement purposes, but I can see now it’s part of the joke.

      That’d be like watching the part in The Walking Dead >!when Carl has to shoot his mom but they’re all naked.!<

  • hihi24522@lemm.ee
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    3 months ago

    Fun fact: I think I had to purposefully construct my sense of empathy.

    I was literally like psychopath-sadist when I was really young. I didn’t really enact anything irl besides torturing bugs or imagining cartoon characters in pain, but around 4yo I started feeling like I was a bad person because other people didn’t seem to desire to do those things, in fact hero’s in movies purposefully avoided violence.

    So the shame/guilt of feeling like I was a monster, a the desire to be like everyone else, lead me to try and make myself feel pain when I hurt other things. When my mother or sisters would tell me to come kill a spider I’d pinch myself or bite my tongue while doing so.

    Then, being a curious kid, I started just trying to imagine the physical sensations of being in different bodies and having different injuries. This eventually spread to trying to imagine different emotions and by and by I didn’t have to force myself to feel it anymore. When I see someone/something get hurt, I don’t have to think about it now, I just feel it.

    While I’ll admit it is possible that I’m correlating this purposeful imagination with some possible natural development of my brain creating empathy, considering that until recently I only really felt pain, negative emotions, and physical sensations through empathy, I’d say it seems most likely I built it myself.

    Since realizing this a few years ago, I have started trying to feel happy/positive empathy too and it does seem like it’s been working. Though, it’s slow going because I’m hella antisocial lol.

    Oh and just in case anyone is worried, I’m no longer sadistic at all. I literally can’t bring myself to kill spiders or other bugs, and there are some scenes in movies I can’t stand to watch. I can unfortunately still feel those old feelings and empathize with sadistic characters/actions, but the saccharine feeling of enjoying causing pain actually makes me physically sick now.

    • Krauerking@lemy.lol
      1·
      3 months ago

      Just like birds are born with wings but it does not make them able to fly, humans have the capacity for empathy but it doesn’t mean it’s complete from birth.

      Things need to be cultivated and let grow.
      No one and nothing starts at complete. And this is something that we as a society need to learn again.

      I’m glad you found space to grow.

  • JadenSmith@sh.itjust.works
    1·
    3 months ago

    When Lion King came out, my best friend at the time and I were taken to see it in the cinema. We were quite young.
    We were asked to leave because this scene made us cry too loudly.

  • big_fat_fluffy@leminal.spaceEnglish
    01·
    3 months ago

    Is it empathy?

    I mean, I have empathy for real live people.

    But imaginary people? That’s something different.

  • sumguyonline@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Wtf. Children experience empathy from when they first develop the ability to understand what is happening around them. They aren’t unfeeling psychopaths, they might be idiots that don’t understand what they are doing is impacting others, but they don’t suddenly grow a conscience and feel empathy. This is bad parenting to even consider thinking that way. You are probably a psychopath if you see your child as a psychopath, one that shouldn’t have a child.

    • rockSlayer@lemmy.world
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      3 months ago

      I’m autistic. I didn’t actually understand empathy until 4th grade. As an adult, I have an overly responsive justice sensitivity. Neurodivergent people don’t just act different, they develop differently and will never fit into your boxes.

    • unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de
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      3 months ago

      No.

      Children below a certain age are completely incapable of understanding simplified and abstracted relationships that are not directly their own. Escpecially not when its in the shape of animated 2D characters on a screen. Death is something you dont even start conceptualizing until like 4 years old.

      • BlueSquid0741@lemmy.sdf.org
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        3 months ago

        I call bullshit.

        My daughter was 3 when she was watching me play Final Fantasy 4. Cid jumped out of the airship and blew himself up.

        She screamed turn it off and ran out of the room. We found her crying in the corner of the room and her mum asked what happened. In between sobbing she choked out “… Cid…” and that was all she could say until she calmed down.

        That’s just one example. Plenty of other times she’s just covered her eyes and said she doesn’t want to watch anymore if people are arguing on screen, or a death is involved.